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in Running, Running Tips, Wine · January 7, 2014

How to Balance Training and Life

I haven’t been talking much lately about wine, although I thought it would be a part of the focus of this blog. I have found that I typically have much more to say about running and training than I do about drinking wine. However, a priority of mine is to balance my training with everything else I have going on. Let’s talk about how to balance training and life.

It can be challenging to train for races while also living your life. Here are some tips for how to balance training and life without sacrificing one or the other. #running #training #life

How to Balance Training and Life

Even though I haven’t talked about drinking wine, I typically enjoy a glass 3-4 days a week. During my “off-season” I was less concerned about when or how much I would drink. Now that I am training again, I am a little more careful about enjoying too much before an important training session.

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I try not to let training take over my life. Even though I run almost every day, I really enjoy having a glass of wine after a long day of work, or a couple of beers out on the weekend. I thought I would share some of my tips for training while still having a life.

Plan your training around your life, and your life around your training

Most of the time I will have a set training plan in place, but if I know I have something to do I will adjust my plan. For example, when I was traveling over the holidays I had to move around my long run to days where I had more time. I made sure that the days when I had to run on a treadmill that they would be shorter runs, so I didn’t lose my mind. If you have more flexibility with your social plans, plan to go out the night of a tough workout, before a rest day, or before a day when you can run later in the day if you are tired. During my training for the Baltimore Marathon I was taking rest days on Thursdays, so on Wednesdays my husband and I would share a bottle of wine. It also gave me something to look forward to during other training days.

Drink water

Whenever I am drinking alcohol, I am always drinking water also. If I am going out to a bar I bring a bottle of water in my bag so that I don’t have to carry around a drink and water. This really helps with feeling ok the next day. But really, just drink water all the time.

Make running your social activity

If you want to hang out with a friend but need to get a run in, see if they will join you. Or get your run done in the morning so you have the evening free. When my sister comes over I make her foam roll with me.

photo 3We tried running together once, but it ended with a broken finger

Know your own limits

I know how I will feel the next day after 2 glasses of wine versus 5 glasses of wine. On another note, I have also found that running is a great way to get rid of a hangover. If you know that drinking will impact your next day’s workout, save the drinks for another day. Or move your run to another day.

Final thoughts

My husband and I have joked that if we drink throughout our training cycles, that the actual race day will feel easier when we didn’t drink the night before. I’m sure there are different views on this, but do what works for you. For some races I had some drinks the night before a race, and I don’t think it made a difference. However, if its your goal race you are probably not going to risk doing anything that can jeopardize your performance. Remember- you’re doing this because it’s fun! Don’t let training take over your life.

And on that note, I am about to go enjoy a glass of sauvignon blanc:)

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How do you balance training and life?

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  1. txa1265 says

    January 8, 2014 at 4:02 am

    Balance is totally important – and it IS supposed to be fun. I broke my last half-marathon taper because it was so nice and I really wanted to run long … so I did. I had a beer with my wife after picking up my race bib for my last marathon – who cares, right? It is so important to keep life and training in balance! I am also all about moderation – I haven’t been ‘drunk’ (or had more than a couple of drinks) in more than 20 years. I like a drink, but not being drunk (and certainly not hung over!)

    Enjoy your wine … I know I did tonight.

    • runningoutofwine says

      January 9, 2014 at 12:56 am

      You’re right that moderation is key! And I’m sure there’s no harm in a beer the day before a marathon…I mean it’s carbs right?!

  2. Megan (The Lyons' Share) says

    January 8, 2014 at 4:57 am

    I love your perspective on this, Lisa – so refreshing! I totally agree with the balanced approach, and I don’t want training to take over my life or become unenjoyable. For me personally, I’m fine with wine the night before a run, as long as I load up on water, too. But if it’s a very long run, I really can’t have more than one glass of wine the night before, or my stomach feels it the next day! And I’d be lying if I hadn’t shared your thoughts on race day being easier because there was no wine involved :).

    • runningoutofwine says

      January 9, 2014 at 12:55 am

      I agree on no more than one glass of wine before a long run! Especially in the summer heat! Going into a hot run already slightly dehydrated is never a good plan.

  3. missadventuresinrunning says

    January 10, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    Great post! I feel the same way! I look forward to a drink the night before a rest day! I also save my weekend drinking for Saturday night usually, since I do my long run Saturday morning. If I balance it out with water though, you are right. Balance is everything, but it does take a bit of figuring out.

    • runningoutofwine says

      January 12, 2014 at 6:14 pm

      Exactly! Glad I’m not the only one who looks forward to a drink before a rest day!

  4. Hayley@healthyregards says

    January 11, 2014 at 2:45 pm

    This has been a tough one for me to figure out over the past couple years, actually balance in general is tough in all areas right?! Anyways, this past summer when I was the only person on my team who wasn’t a professional I got some great insight on what NOT to do. For these athletes training is their life and full time job and it was way too much. I use to avoid social things, be crazy about getting enough sleep, what I ate, when I ate, proper recovery etc… I finally realized when I saw others doing this that you really miss out on other things in life. Now I try to relax a little more when it comes to my training, I try to make sure I am having fun 95% of the time when training and if workouts are not becoming a release for me from other stresses in my life I know its time to take a day off. I remind myself that this is my hobby, meant to be fun!

    • runningoutofwine says

      January 12, 2014 at 6:15 pm

      Great points! It can be hard to find balance but what’s the point of training if you aren’t happy?!

  5. afireworkinprogress says

    January 11, 2014 at 5:33 pm

    Balance is something I struggle with too. I try to make my workouts social activities and try to stay balanced with having fun and being healthy by making the best choices for the given situation. It’s all a learning experience!

    • runningoutofwine says

      January 12, 2014 at 6:16 pm

      You’re right, it is a learning experience! I think its great that you try to make the best choices in a given situation…leaving room for flexibility!

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Would it even be race week if I wasn’t a ball of n Would it even be race week if I wasn’t a ball of nerves and not able to sleep? This is my first big marathon in 10 years, my first time traveling to a race in 10 years, and my first time spending the night away from my kids. And of course I’m tapering so I can’t run off the nerves 🙃 #marathontraining #taper #richmondmarathon
Looked like fall, felt like summer 🍁 I was definit Looked like fall, felt like summer 🍁 I was definitely overdressed for this run but it was nice to not wear gloves or a headband! This was the run I needed a week before my marathon. After last week’s disaster of a long run it felt great to just run an easy 10 miles. (And these days 10 miles feels like nothing). I think I figured out the fueling and shoes 🤞so nothing left to do but take it easy, carb load, and get in the right mindset! Is it unseasonably warm where you are?

#running #marathontraining #longrun
Yesterday’s long run was not what I wanted it to b Yesterday’s long run was not what I wanted it to be. The plan was to take the day off from work, head to the trail where I could run 10 uninterrupted miles at MP (16 total) and practice my race day fueling while wearing my race day shoes.

What actually happened? All week I was stressed about this run and the condition of the trail. We had lots of rain on Thursday, and Friday was forecasted to be very windy. I tried to get in the best mindset possible, reminding myself that I won’t be able to control the conditions on race day. Meanwhile, I haven’t been sleeping well thanks to my 2 year old waking up every night, and my watch has been basically telling me that I’m losing all my fitness and need a week of recovery.

While I started the run feeling pretty good, after 11 miles (7 at MP) my stomach turned and I almost got sick on the side of the trail. I just couldn’t recover from that. The best I could do was run the rest of the miles easy, and needed some walk breaks. On top of that, my shoe kept rubbing my foot on top and I stopped twice to retie it. This has never happened before and now I’m questioning what shoes I should wear for the race. The trail was also in rough condition with several trees blocking it, lots of wet leaves, and rocks/sticks that I had to look out for.

I just can’t believe how bad I felt for the last 5 miles of this run and I can’t pinpoint the cause. Am I overdoing it with the fueling and can’t handle it on harder effort runs? Was it something I ate recently? The hard part is there’s no time to really try something different before the race, as all I have left is a 10 mile easy run next weekend.

I’m trying to remember that one bad run does not take away from all the good runs this training cycle. I’m using today to reset and move on so I can make the most of my last 2 weeks of training. It’s not the way I wanted my last big long run to go, but I suppose it was good practice for pushing through even when I felt pretty awful.

Who else has had a terrible long run close to your race?

#running #marathontraining #longrun
Spent almost every step of this 21 mile run questi Spent almost every step of this 21 mile run questioning my life choices. Like waking up at 3am to run 12 miles on the treadmill and 9 outside. This was a crazy week with a kid that wasn’t sleeping great and fighting a cold and super busy days at work. My legs were just tired the whole time today. It was really hard to run outside after so many treadmill miles and my pace was much slower than inside.

I reminded myself that this is peak week. It’s supposed to feel hard. If it was easy everyone would do it. I ran 53 miles this week and am not injured. The weather is perfect. I’ve gotten in every planned run of this training cycle so far.  I get to do this. 

And I managed to finish strong with my last 3 miles the fastest of the (outside) run. I owe that to a solid fueling plan and taking all my gels even when I really didn’t want to.

3 weeks to go until race day!

#running #marathontraining #longrun
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