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in Running, Tuesdays on the Run · August 14, 2018

Becoming a Runner: How Running Has Changed Me Over the Years

When I think back on my running journey, it’s kind of crazy to think about how much I have changed since I started running. I think part of this is just due to getting older. I started running races when I was 23, and I think most people change quite a bit from their early 20s to mid 30s anyway. However, I feel that being a runner has played a part in shaping me into who I have become over the years.

Becoming a Runner How Running has Changed me Over the Years

When I think back on my lifestyle before running, it’s hard to believe that I was the same person. I guess my fitness journey really started when I was in college and began exercising regularly. However, during that time I was otherwise living a very unhealthy lifestyle (as many colleges students do). Luckily, as I began life in the “real world” I began making some healthier choices and my lifestyle slowly began to change for the better. The big changes though, happened once I really fell in love with running.

I wasn’t the type of person who decided I wanted to do a race and then started running more to train for that. Instead, I was already working out 5-6 days a week and running was a part of that routine. Gradually I found myself wanting to run more. I would go out and run for an hour or more, just because it felt good. I wouldn’t even set a mileage or time goal for a run, but I many weeks I would find myself going farther than the week before. This was before the days or GPS watches so I really just knew how long I was running for, not how far. 

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Finally in 2007 I decided I might as well run a half marathon. I didn’t follow a “training plan” (at least not that I remember), I just continued with my regular workout routine and added in longer runs each week. Crossing that finish line for the first time was one of the most memorable experiences in my running history. From that point on I felt like I was a real runner.

Here are some of the ways that I feel like running has changed me:

Led to Healthier Eating

After college I tried to start eating better, as I was also exercising more. Looking back I don’t know if I would still stay my diet was “healthy”, but the effort was there. As I started running more and reading more about how to fuel for running I gradually started to change my diet. It’s definitely gone through phases over the years. I’ve learned that a healthy diet is about fueling mostly with real foods that make you feel good, while also enjoying what you eat. 

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Made me a Morning Person

Believe it or not, there was once a time when I could stay up until 3am and sleep until noon the next day. Now, I’m in bed before 9 and up by 5 most days. Again, this could just be something that comes with getting older, but for a long time it was running that got me out of bed at an early time. I remember when I was in graduate school and also working full-time I learned that if I didn’t get in a workout before I started my day that it just wouldn’t happen. I started getting up at 5 to go to the gym on days that I had work and class and learned I felt so much better when I would start the day with a workout.

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Became a way to relieve stress

Before running was a part of my life I didn’t really have a way to deal with stress. Maybe there were less stressors in my life then but it’s important that everyone has something that they can turn to to help them relax. I’m glad I found something positive to help me with this. 

Improved self-confidence

In many ways I think that running has helped me to gain more self-confidence. Navigating early adulthood is not easy, and at times for me it was a struggle as I was figuring out what I wanted to do with my life and getting started in my career. Running was something I was able to take pride in, because there are always small accomplishments to celebrate.

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Shift from “Weight Loss” to “Fitness” and more

While I may have started working out to avoid weight gain, my perspective has definitely shifted over the years, especially as I learned to really love running. I learned it was about being fit vs skinny, and even more than that it’s about just doing something active that makes you feel good. 

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It’s always interesting to look back on how things have changed over the years. I feel like I am at a point in my running where things will likely change drastically over the next few years. That’s the nice thing about running- it can easily meet your needs at whatever point in life you are in. While running may take a backseat as I get further into my pregnancy and then learn to navigate motherhood, I know it is something that will always be there for me. I wonder what I will have to say about my running journey another 10 years from now.

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Did you start running for one reason and then keep up with it for a different reason?

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  1. Wendy says

    August 14, 2018 at 7:31 am

    It’s pretty amazing to look back and think about all the ways running has changed you, isn’t it? I can’t wait to see what you’ll do with motherhood, but I’m sure you’ll rock it! Because running has made you strong and confident. What a great way to raise a child!

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:54 pm

      Thanks! Its so awesome to see so many mother runners who are doing great things, so it gives me hope that its possible to continue running through this next phase of life!

  2. Kim G says

    August 14, 2018 at 8:22 am

    I’m a relatively new runner (didn’t start until I was 30 or 31 – can’t remember), but my perspective on running has changed over that time. At first it was all about PRs and trying new distances. Now it’s all about being consistent. I don’t aspire to get a PR anymore but still love how running helps to keep me accountable and also keeps me healthy.

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:55 pm

      It’s great how running gives us so many different things we can work towards!

  3. Lacey@fairytalesandfitness says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:02 am

    I hated running in High School, and I didn’t run again until I was in college and needed to get back in shape. I started running a lot more and decided to run my first half marathon. I didn’t particular love it at first, but slowly started enjoying it. And now, I can’t imagine not having running in my daily life.

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:55 pm

      I also hated running in high school! I only did it to stay in shape for other sports.

  4. Wendy Hammond says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:32 am

    I love hearing how running has shaped you. I started running to lose weight, but it has become so much more than that. Especially once I started running trails, it is my escape!

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:56 pm

      It’s really amazing how our reasons for running can change over the years!

  5. Marcia says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:41 am

    Isn’t it crazy how running takes on different forms and meaning to us as we enter different stages of life? Like you, 2007 was the year I made the leap to half and full marathon too. Can’t wait to see you adapt your running for motherhood. You’ll be great!

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:56 pm

      It’s really amazing to think of all the different ways that running can be a part of our lives. It makes me excited for the next step!

  6. Cari says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:48 am

    I’m impressed at your 9 to 5 sleep schedule. I couldn’t do it, mostly because even if I don’t go to the gym I ‘ m rarely home before 8 and often times 9. But yes, I feel that running has knocked out some of my sleeping in. I was on vacation last week aand while rooming with a three year old helped, it didn’t feel weird to be up and out early.

    Freshman year of college for me was one of my best diets. I lost a ton of weight and looking back, it was in the weirdest way: pasta and salad at almost every meal. But I gave up desserts. I was unfortunately an all pro at yo yo ing though and hope that running has resolved that

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:58 pm

      When I saw I am usually in bed by 9, it’s often times as early as 8! And I can’t remember the last time I slept past 6 am.

      That’s great that running has helped you with managing your diet!

  7. San says

    August 14, 2018 at 12:39 pm

    I wish I had started running earlier… I feel like I have missed out! I agree with you on all of the ways that running has changed me… and I can’t wait to see how it will continue to change us in the future (especially for you now that you’re becoming a mom!)

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:59 pm

      All that matters is that you started running! It’s exciting to think about how much it can change for us as the years go on.

  8. Judy @ Chocolaterunsjudy says

    August 14, 2018 at 2:44 pm

    I definitely started running to help with weight loss, and while it still helps keep my weight in check (mostly), there are really better ways to exercise to keep your weight down! I didn’t immediately fall in love with it and I also started very late in life. Which may actually be a good thing — we all know that running won’t ruin your knees but it’s also true that it’s hard on the body, and over time it can really take a toll for most people.

    It’s definitely one of my favorite ways to bust stress!

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 6:01 pm

      It’s so true that running isn’t really the best exercise for weight loss. But I guess it’s more important to find some sort of fitness activity that is enjoyable!

  9. Samantha says

    August 14, 2018 at 4:20 pm

    I enjoyed reading about your running journey through the year and I’m excited to see where it goes from here on out! Running has definitely changed me and changed during various points in my life!

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 14, 2018 at 6:01 pm

      Thanks! Its fun to look back on how things have evolved and to think about what’s to come in the future.

  10. Kimberly Hatting says

    August 14, 2018 at 11:07 pm

    Running definitely has changed me…it has given me so much confidence in my (now) athletic body. My running has changed, too, over the years. When I first started running, that’s all I did for fitness. Thankfully, in the past nine years, I have learned to respect the value in strength training and cross-training.

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 15, 2018 at 5:01 am

      I think many runners start out with only running (when they realize how much they like it) but eventfully learn that its important to balance running with other activities too!

  11. Maureen @ Maureen Gets Real says

    August 15, 2018 at 7:30 am

    Running is the best stress relief!

    I think running changed me by adding some more toughness/perseverance to me. It taught me that I can do hard things and the journey of running is the best.

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 17, 2018 at 5:36 am

      The mental toughness is such an awesome benefit of being a runner!

  12. Laura says

    August 15, 2018 at 11:13 am

    I enjoyed reading your running journey and can’t wait to see how it grows with motherhood! I started running in college and the habit made me a morning person earlier in life – I remember getting up at 6 AM to run on school days during my senior year of college and the habit has stuck with me since.

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 17, 2018 at 5:37 am

      I think it can definitely help us form habits like that, and it seems like many runners become early risers!

  13. Deborah Brooks says

    August 19, 2018 at 2:49 pm

    I did not start running until my mid 30’s but was always a gym girl and healthy eater. Running has opened up so many new doors to me it’s hard to imagine my life without running. Hope I never have to! The best part has really been the people that running has brought into my life both in person and within the running community

    • Lisa @ Mile By Mile says

      August 19, 2018 at 6:27 pm

      It really has been a great way of connecting with new people!

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Yesterday’s long run was not what I wanted it to Yesterday’s long run was not what I wanted it to be. The plan was to take the day off from work, head to the trail where I could run 10 uninterrupted miles at MP (16 total) and practice my race day fueling while wearing my race day shoes.

What actually happened? All week I was stressed about this run and the condition of the trail. We had lots of rain on Thursday, and Friday was forecasted to be very windy. I tried to get in the best mindset possible, reminding myself that I won’t be able to control the conditions on race day. Meanwhile, I haven’t been sleeping well thanks to my 2 year old waking up every night, and my watch has been basically telling me that I’m losing all my fitness and need a week of recovery.

While I started the run feeling pretty good, after 11 miles (7 at MP) my stomach turned and I almost got sick on the side of the trail. I just couldn’t recover from that. The best I could do was run the rest of the miles easy, and needed some walk breaks. On top of that, my shoe kept rubbing my foot on top and I stopped twice to retie it. This has never happened before and now I’m questioning what shoes I should wear for the race. The trail was also in rough condition with several trees blocking it, lots of wet leaves, and rocks/sticks that I had to look out for.

I just can’t believe how bad I felt for the last 5 miles of this run and I can’t pinpoint the cause. Am I overdoing it with the fueling and can’t handle it on harder effort runs? Was it something I ate recently? The hard part is there’s no time to really try something different before the race, as all I have left is a 10 mile easy run next weekend.

I’m trying to remember that one bad run does not take away from all the good runs this training cycle. I’m using today to reset and move on so I can make the most of my last 2 weeks of training. It’s not the way I wanted my last big long run to go, but I suppose it was good practice for pushing through even when I felt pretty awful.

Who else has had a terrible long run close to your race?

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Spent almost every step of this 21 mile run questi Spent almost every step of this 21 mile run questioning my life choices. Like waking up at 3am to run 12 miles on the treadmill and 9 outside. This was a crazy week with a kid that wasn’t sleeping great and fighting a cold and super busy days at work. My legs were just tired the whole time today. It was really hard to run outside after so many treadmill miles and my pace was much slower than inside.

I reminded myself that this is peak week. It’s supposed to feel hard. If it was easy everyone would do it. I ran 53 miles this week and am not injured. The weather is perfect. I’ve gotten in every planned run of this training cycle so far.  I get to do this. 

And I managed to finish strong with my last 3 miles the fastest of the (outside) run. I owe that to a solid fueling plan and taking all my gels even when I really didn’t want to.

3 weeks to go until race day!

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Yesterday’s long run was followed immediately by Yesterday’s long run was followed immediately by back to back kid activities, so there was no time to post about it. (I ate breakfast in the car and lunch at soccer practice- it was that kind of a day.) I was kind of nervous going in to this run, especially now that I’m getting down to last few key long runs. I had 16 miles with 4 x 2 miles on the plan, which sounded manageable but also challenging. The weather was perfect and I hit all my paces. At the end I got a little confused- thinking I was at 15 miles but I was actually at 14 🙃 Got home and realized I chafed really bad. Another long run down, and another week closer to race day.

Do you ever psych yourself out before long runs?

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