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in Runners' Roundup, Running, Running Tips · August 13, 2025

Mental Strategies For Running To Use When A Race Gets Tough

When running a race, we are usually pushing ourselves to new limits. This takes not only physical strength but also mental strength. When our mind gives up it is hard to keep pushing. There have been many times when the last part of my race suffered because I gave up mentally. It’s important to understand mental strategies to use for running and to also practice them before your race. This makes it easier to use when you are struggling during the hard parts of race day. Here are some mental strategies for running to use when a race gets tough.

When running a race, we are usually pushing ourselves hard. This takes not only physical strength but also mental strength. When our mind gives up it is hard to keep pushing. Here are some mental strategies for running to use when a race gets tough.

Mental Strategies For Running To Use When A Race Gets Tough

Prepare for and Expect the Negative Thoughts

Knowing that negative thoughts will happen at some point during a race allows us to prepare for them. Negative thoughts will likely happen in training too, so use those moments to practice what you will do in a race when you experience negative thoughts. Have a plan in place for how you will overcome them during your race.

Expect it to feel hard

If you are running a race in order to achieve a challenging goal, at some point it will feel hard. What will make or break the race is how you respond to those moments when you want to give up. Just because it feels hard doesn’t mean you can’t keep going. Practice what you will do when it feels hard. During your race think back to moments when training felt hard and you overcame challenges. Know that it will feel hard at some point, but remind yourself that you can do hard things.

Replace your negative thoughts with positive ones

This is an important, practical skill that you can practice during running and in other areas of life. Start by noticing your thoughts. When you notice you are having a negative thought, practice replacing it with a positive thought. Spend some time writing down negative thoughts you have had and work on changing them to something positive. This will feel harder to do when you are racing, so practice is really important.

Accept the pain

Of course this is easier said than done, but if you can mentally accept the pain, then you can take the next steps to manage it. Identify what you are experiencing and decide what you will do about it. Lean into the discomfort and work through it in small intervals. Know that it will eventually pass.

Focus on something besides the thoughts

If you are feeling like you are stuck thinking about how hard a race is or how uncomfortable you are feeling, try focusing on something else. One strategy is to count in your head. You can match this up to your footsteps and go to whatever number you want. It’s something simple that doesn’t take alot of thinking but may help you to shift your focus. You can also focus on what is going on around you, such as other runners in a race. Try focusing on sticking with or catching up to other runners.

Use Mindfulness Techniques

An alternative strategy is to shift your focus to what is going on internally. How is your body feeling? What is your breathing like? Focus on relaxing your body starting up top and working your way down. Try to take some longer breaths to steady your breathing. You can read about more mindfulness techniques for running here.

Practice Gratitude

It may feel awkward to be practicing gratitude during a tough part of a race, but it may help to shift your experience to become more positive. This is something you can practice throughout your training and early in your race before it gets too hard. During your training cycle, try implementing a daily gratitude practice where each day you identify or write down something you are grateful for.

Use your mantras

During training, come up with some mantras you can use when a run or a race gets hard. You can even write these on your hand or somewhere that you can look at during a race. Again, practicing using these during training runs is very helpful!

Know your “why” and think about it during your race

Why do you run? Why are you training for a race? Why are you working towards a challenging goal? Sometimes we don’t really know our “why” and need to think it through. Come up with a clear definition of your “why” before your race so you can remember it when the race gets hard.

Even when a race doesn’t go as planned, remember that it is a learning experience. Take what didn’t go well and work on improving that for your next race.

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How do you push through mentally when a race gets tough?

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  1. Deborah Brooks says

    August 13, 2025 at 7:03 am

    It can be super challenging to push through a tough race both mentally and physically !

  2. Jenn says

    August 14, 2025 at 8:56 am

    It’s always a great time to write a mental grocery or to-do list! Or finish that argument you started in third grade and didn’t have the chance to win lol! Or is that just me?

    I remember a couple doing math equations in front of me while I was running my marathon. It was both awful and genius all at once!

  3. Debbie says

    August 18, 2025 at 8:49 pm

    I think race plans are so great because they help you prepare for all of these things so when they do happen you know how to react.

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Alright, my last post about the Richmond Marathon Alright, my last post about the Richmond Marathon (maybe). This one is about lessons learned/areas for improvement.

1) Starting in the right corral- I knew I wanted to start a little slow but I think I started too far back and I ended up boxed in later in the race. 

2) Increasing fueling- I think I did the best I could on this day but now that I know more about what works/doesn’t work for me I think I can try to get my carbs/hr a little higher for next time

3) Self-doubt- On paper I knew my training showed I could run a certain time. My coach knew I could run a certain time. But deep down did I believe I could run that time? I’m not really sure.

4) My right piriformis- This little muscle has been giving me trouble FOREVER and it likes to rear its ugly head the most during races. I’m working with a PT but it’s hard to address the issue when I can go months without any problems and then at mile 15 of a marathon it starts acting up. So while this is certainly an area for improvement I am not really sure what I’ll be able to do to keep it from happening next time.

5) Ignore the data leading up to the race- During race week my sleep scores were horrible, my HRV tanked, and my watch told me I was “strained”. I might just stop wearing it during the taper next time.

What lessons have you learned during a marathon or big race?

@richmondmarathon #racerecap
It’s been 5 days since the Richmond Marathon and i It’s been 5 days since the Richmond Marathon and it feels like a lifetime ago! I am working on my full race recap which I will post on my website but I wanted to share some reflections on here. Today I want to focus on what went well. Every finish line is an accomplishment, and while every race can teach us something I think it’s always important to focus on the positive.

First off, Richmond was a great race with amazing crowd support! There were some hills (a few steeper than I expected) but nothing crazy.

Fueling went well- after my train wreck of a run a few weeks ago I had to adjust my fueling plan and took out the Tailwind High Carb and went back to regular Skratch instead. I tried to make up for the difference with gels but my overall carbs per hour was a little less than it had been when using the Tailwind. I think I got about 65 g/hour so I’d like to get that up a bit next time but I didn’t get nauseous and took gels up until the end of the race.

Shoes felt good- during that same training run I had some top of foot soreness from my laces. I changed my lacing technique and had no issues on race day. 

Mindset- I did a lot of work preparing for the race mentally and was able to use those strategies during the race. I focused on one mile at a time and shifted my goals when I knew my original goal was not going to happen. 

Pacing- Even though I didn’t run my goal pace I was able to run fairly consistently without drastically slowing down at the end. 

Recovery- I felt pretty good following the race and wasn’t even sore anymore by Tuesday. This was probably the least sore I’ve been after a marathon.

Strong training cycle- this year I feel like I’ve been clawing my way back to where I was a year ago after several illnesses last winter and spring. I had a great training cycle with @lauranorrisrunning and I know I’ve made more progress than my race time shows.

Marathons are a huge investment so I really tried to make the most of the experience!

@richmondmarathon #racerecap
Happy Medal Monday! I can’t believe the Richmond M Happy Medal Monday! I can’t believe the Richmond Marathon was only 2 days ago. I’m barely sore (probably because I was trained for a faster time than I ran) and am feeling good.

I included a list of my marathon times on the last slide here, which I posted in my stories yesterday. I got some messages about how others can relate to feeling like their times “reset” at a certain point- whether it was after an injury, having kids, or just time off from running.

I think we can get so caught up in PRs that it may take away from the overall progress made in the process of training. Sure, there are runners who come back from having kids and immediately set a new lifetime PR. But many of us will need to chip away at our times to get to where we want to be.

Focusing on progress and the gains made in a training cycle vs a specific race time can help to keep things in perspective!

Now, I’m trying to figure out spring racing plans. What’s everyone running this spring?

#medalmonday
What a day! This race (and really, this week) was What a day! This race (and really, this week) was a rollercoaster. I knew pretty early on that my legs and my lungs were not feeling my goal pace. Each time I sped up it felt really hard- way too hard to not even be at 10 miles yet. So I just focused on running the effort that my body would allow. I used all the mental strategies I had to get through each mile. Ultimately, I wanted to run faster than my marathon last November, which I did by almost 2 minutes, making this a postpartum PR. More importantly, I smiled almost the whole time.

After finishing we had to rush to get out of our hotel room and spent the whole afternoon driving home. Over the past 2 days I’ve spent almost 10 hours in the car.

More to come soon…just hoping to get home and get some rest soon!

#richmondmarathon
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